I heard a young woman recently say that she lost her virginity before she had her first kiss. That is just mind-boggling to me. She went on to say that she’d had multiple sexual partners in an attempt to improve her sexual skills.
Now if prostitution is a career path and she’s living in Nevada where it’s perfectly legal, and it’s the family business, I totally understand that, otherwise, somebody failed her miserably and/or she’s going down a path that may be financially profitable but at what cost?
“Every Tom, Dick and Harry ain’t supposed to know how you moan, Baby; that list ought to be very short. Your reputation depends on it.” –Sam Green, Sr. aka My Daddy
By now, most of you know that I grew up in my Daddy’s barber shop and beauty salon and that he did not censor any conversations for my sake. In fact, he knew that allowing me to get the uncensored versions of how differently men and women thought about and used sex would be to my immediate and ultimate benefit.
This post is not to condemn any person because all any of us can do is that which we know. But as with every PooNannie Post, it is to spark conversation about behaviors because to be sexually uninhibited is a good thing when in healthy context, but to be “loose” is just irresponsible.
Sexual Guidance is Good Parenting
Our society is moving so fast and parents are so busy running the rat race while sexuality expands, evolves and/or unveils that we are all still trying to figure out where we are sexually, and too many parents, therefore provide little, if any, guidance for our children. And when left to their own devices, they make it up as they go and their experiences become their truth. And being the humans we are, when we reinforce our” truth(s)” through conditioning, how we are conditioned becomes our reality.
Let’s face it, sex has never been an easy subject for most adults, even today in our very actively sexual society, parents are still not talking with their children about what it means to be sexually responsible. Mostly, because they themselves have not been, or worse, still are not.
PooNannie: the delicacy between a woman’s legs
(according to the Urban Dictionary)
Delicacy or Stankin’ Tuna?
No, this is not just about loose girls and loose women, we all know that boys and men are as sexually irresponsible, but they can’t do it without you women (you know the exceptions, but I’m not going there in this post)!
Smarter Than Your Private Parts
WOMAN: You are the gatekeepers and you have to get smarter about how you’re using that tool between your legs. Too many of you, especially you “I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T women”, are just doling it out freely, uninterrupted and uninhibited – proving that intellect does not equal smart.
She’s educated! A professional – handling her business and climbing the success ladder all week long, but when dealing with men she trades in her brilliant brain for a box of rocks!
A smart woman wouldn’t dilute the overall value of a delicacy by turning hers into a stankin’ tuna!
“Reputations can be improved, but never removed. You can recover from being a ‘bitch’, but some labels are irreparable…you don’t ever want to be known as the neighborhood ho”. –Sam Green, Sr. aka My Daddy
The PooNannie is a delicacy. Treat H.E.R. as such – with Honor, Esteem and Respect.
When you do here’s what you’ll find: you’ll attract men who will treat you the same way – with Honor, Esteem and Respect…and you will have deserved it. We tend to get what we accept, not what we deserve. 😉
Enter the Grown Zone…Grown IS Sexy! 😉
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All the best,
Speaker, Individuality Advocate
Author of Living by Design and Living in Harmony