No PooNannie For Deadbeats

That's Messed Up!

That’s Messed Up!

You’ve got to become more discriminate about who gets access to your goods. STOP REWARDING DEADBEATS!

A man who does not support his kids has already shown you who he is.

A woman once made the argument in a salon-type setting, “If you’ve got a half decent man you should be happy.” Astonished by women’s agreement I replied, “Not unless you’re only half decent!” **crickets**

Here’s the really unfortunate part: deadbeats continue to have babies because women support them – THE DEADBEATS!

“You don’t get what you deserve you get what you accept!”

-Grown Zone

A woman who allows an only half decent man (and for many of them “half decent” is a compliment) access to her heart, home, money and/or PooNannie does not properly value herself. It’s a ugly cycle that women – the birthers and nurturers – can and must break. Ladies, Your PooNannie is YOUR responsibility!

Any man who doesn’t support his children will not take care of yours…that includes the ones you would have for him. YOU ARE NOT THE EXCEPTION! In fact, if you valued yourself properly, a man who doesn’t support his children shouldn’t get a seat at your table – CERTAINLY NOT A KEY TO YOUR POONANNIE!

If you don’t have a criteria for who gains entry, start with this!

#NoPooNannieForDeadbeats

#NoPooNannieForDeadbeats

It’s time to #RaiseTheBar ladies for yourselves and who you choose as your mates for the sake of your children and our future. It’s time to #LiveInTheGrownZone! Ladies, if you want better from a man then you must change your qualifiers.

I think the Grown Zone might just have to add #NoPooNannieForDeadbeats to our “movement” efforts! 😉

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YOUR PooNannie – YOUR Responsibililty!

I will NOT give women a pass on this – PooNannie Phoolery is on you! “Why not Penis Phoolery, Zara”, they say, “men are just as guilty! What happened to equal responsibility?” Because the responsibility is NOT equal!

A woman has to yield to penis entry so she holds more responsibility. It’s HER PooNannie he’s after and she’s got to become more saavy about why he wants it, get clear about why she yields, get more discerning about whom she distributes it to and how she dispenses all sexual activities.

No, it ain’t equal!

Raise the Bar for Entry!

I’m hard on women about PooNannie Phoolery because, with rare exceptions of tragedy, its ripple effects can’t happen without your permission: diseases can’t spread, men can’t become “dogs” (they can come hunting, but you don’t have to become their prey), babies can’t be produced – none of it can happen without YOU yielding to the process. When you protect your PooNannie, you protect your heart – your mental, emotional and physical health; you protect your life!

I will continue to declare that the responsibility has to lay heavier on the woman because she has to yield to it. And she’s the one left to clean up the massive messes it leaves.

So with NO APOLOGY Woman, I implore you to Raise the Damn Bar!

Here we grow…Grown IS Sexy! ;-)

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All the best,
Zara
Speaker, Individuality Advocate
Author of Living by Design and Living in Harmony