Personal Growth Is Optional – Choose It


Growth is Optional

I may be the bearer of bad news but hear me LOUD and CLEAR: if your 2012 sucked and you have no personal growth goals so will your 2013! Whatever you want, you’ve to learn more to do better.

We grow in 3 ways: Physically, Mentally & Emotionally/Spiritually. Only the latter is optional.  You have to CHOOSE to learn more about individuality, relationships and how the world works in order to make better decisions; to cooperate with the world as it’s happening (not happening to you) knowing that it’s all working together for your good. All of it!

It is smart to make plans in life but being able to effectively navigate when the plan takes detours is life-giving. Personal growth is key. Don’t ever stop intentionally growing!

Show me a relationship that ends badly and I’ll show you, at least, one person in it whose maturity level is lagging. Personal growth is THE MOST IMPORTANT commitment one makes to his/herself and the most meaningful quality one brings to a relationship.

If the person you choose to be in relationship with is not already on that path as an individual, you’re a fool to believe that it won’t hinder the growth of your relationship. Choose partners wisely! Don’t be blinded by other stuff – how fine he is, the cars they drive or the positions they hold because intellectual capacity does not mean they’re relationship smart. Next Decision Better!™

Here we grow…Grown IS Sexy!™ 😉

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All the best,
Speaker, Individuality Advocate
Author of Living by Design and Living in Harmony


About Zara Green
Hi, I'm Zara Green, A "Do Better" Fanatic and Your Advocate...I'm glad you're here! As a personal growth Author and Speaker, who's Individuality & Resilience-Focused, I spark conversations that expand thinking, encourage effective & productive responses and produce better individual decision-making and better interpersonal communications in relationships. Growing Up with Zara because life is meant to be enjoyed ;-)

2 Responses to Personal Growth Is Optional – Choose It

  1. Always on point Ms. Zara. Love it.

  2. Zara Green says:

    Thank you Tonya, happy new year! 🙂

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